Generally, people can be divided into two groups when it comes to pets: cats and dogs. But one person wonders if his friend has taken the concept too far.
In a recent Reddit post shared in the popular “Am I the Asshole?” subreddit, a woman revealed that the situation began when she posted a photo of her cat on Instagram Stories of her sitting next to her while she was cooking, clarifying that he was nowhere near the food.
However, that didn't stop her friend from criticizing the cat's proximity to her food, according to the woman, who wrote: “My 'friend' Rose reposted it with her own caption, a vomit-face emoji, and 'You can '. Don't eat everyone at home.'”
He explained that, at the time, he didn't think much of it because of Rose's frequent use of popular social media phrases like “pineapple on pizza = monsters” and “raisins in cookies are the reason I have sleep problems.” trust”.
“She has other traits that make up for it, but the truth is that I tend to avoid time alone with her,” he clarified.
But, according to the Reddit user, when it came time to plan the guest list for a dinner he was hosting, he made the decision not to invite Rose, who found out about the party when attendees started gathering. post about it.
She wrote that Rose eventually confronted her and told her she was giving off “high school mean girl vibes.”
“I told him that I had made it clear that I don't eat in the houses of people who have cats, so why would I have invited her to a dinner?” The woman continued in the post.
“He got defensive and said he could have come and not eaten anything. I told him that in the future he should maybe be more careful with what he says, because it became very clear to me.”
“Rose has kept telling people that I'm giving 'mean high school girl to nurse' (…I'm an accountant) and all that,” the post concluded while asking users to give their opinion on the situation.
After the post, many people admitted that they agreed with the poster and felt that he was never asked to invite Rose to the dinner.
“You're not giving off bad girl vibes. “She is giving off unbearable, super-entitled idiot vibes,” one comment began. “I'm comfortable with the idea that if someone thinks I'm a cow for enforcing my boundaries, then I'll moo happily. Honestly, it's better to be treated like a doormat until you break down and suddenly your Le Creuset cookware is splattered with blood.”
Another commenter agreed, writing, “It seems like he's just now learning that actions have consequences. No way does she really believe that she could publicly embarrass you and still be invited, that's a real 'delulu'. It sounds very chronic online and self-centered, no amount of good traits make up for that right. I mean, I use those phrases too but never in a serious context and DEFINITELY never to insult/belittle someone else. Honestly, that's weird. I hope you take a hard look at this relationship and realize it's not worth the headache.”
“She wanted you to invite her to a DINNER where she wouldn't eat,” noted a third commenter. “Does she know what a dinner is? The point is to eat and talk about the food while she eats it, maybe a drink or two after everyone leaves, what would she be doing while everyone else eats and discusses the food she's not eating? “The girl is crazy.”
