First Bachelorette party Couple Ryan and Trista Sutter have sparked confusion with cryptic activity on Instagram.
After posting a series of strange posts on Instagram, Ryan Sutter has Bachelor Nation unsure of what could be going on with his wife, first. Bachelorette party leader Trista Sutter, is on the run or worse. After the couple fell in love in the first season of High school In 2003, they got married that same year and in December 2023 they celebrated 20 years of weddings. Since getting married, they have welcomed two children: Maxwell, 16, and Blakesley, 14.
Fans were shocked that the franchise's oldest couple apparently has relationship issues with Ryan sharing cryptic posts about Trista starting on Mother's Day. In his first post on May 11, he implied that he and his wife were not in contact.
“They say that absence makes love grow. “I can only think of a handful of days where, at the very least, I haven’t spoken to this incredible woman,” she wrote. “She is the love of my life and my best friend. I can't imagine loving her more or more affectionately. But I guess we'll find out… “I miss her already.”
The post contradicted Trista's tribute posted a day later, which showed a seemingly happy family.
At first, many fans assumed that perhaps the pediatric physical therapist would be joining another reality show, which can often strain a relationship due to the long months of filming. However, later posts led fans to wonder if something more serious had happened to the former. Bachelorette party.
The cryptic subtitles didn't end there.
On May 18, Ryan clarified to fans that his wife was “fine,” however, he did not reveal where she was or what she was doing. He shared a photo, a selfie of the two of them, with the caption: “I really wish I could talk to you. Ask you how you are? How was his day? “I would really like to hear your voice, just for a minute.”
“Many times I have called without much to say, not realizing how lucky I was or how much I would miss out on the opportunity if it disappeared,” he continued, to the continued confusion of Bachelor Nation.
“I want to know how are you. I want to support you, encourage you and uplift you. I want to be there for you. But I can not. And it's okay because I know you need this time… time to discover yourself again. So I'll be here for you. I'll be here when you get back. I will be here to listen to you, to smile with you, maybe cry with you. “I will be here to love you…I will be here…forever.”
She explained that she was “temporarily inaccessible” to her family.
“I write what is on my mind at the moment. I write my feelings without taking into account how they will be interpreted and without any intention to deceive or mislead anyone; that is the furthest thing from my mind,” she wrote. “I choose to share my thoughts on occasion because it helps me process them and, I hope, can help others navigate their own lives.”
“Trista is fine,” he added. “We're good. They were great. Trista is in a place in life where she's doing some searching. An opportunity came up that can help her in that search. With the support of her family she's done it. Part of that process means that she is temporarily inaccessible to us. We miss her.”
Some fans theorized that the former Miami Heat dancer might have joined the cast of the survival reality show. Special Forces, while others prepared for the worst possible scenario. Although many commented with messages of support, some questioned why Ryan was publicizing this fight in the first place.
“Why advertise all this?” commented one fan. “Let her 'search a little' without all the attention you're drawing to her.”
He addressed fans' concerns under a photo of his dog, writing: “21 years ago I was pretty famous. I don't have millions of followers and I'm not influencing anyone, but for some reason, from time to time, people still pay attention to me. Apparently that has been the case recently?
He wrote that he was posting the messages for when his wife had “a moment where she could eventually read them,” noting that she would understand the “context.”
“It was suggested that Trista had died, that we were in trouble, or that it must be a midlife crisis, among many other creative ideas,” he continued. “Some people thought she was intentionally misleading people to benefit me in some way? It was picked up on entertainment news sites and I started getting texts from friends asking if I was okay. All because I missed my wife and decided to share how she felt.”
In the end, he clarified that everything “went well,” but he still did not say what happened.