In friendship, people do not judge each other.
It is very important to understand who are our true friends and who are our false friends.
Friendship is something very special for many of us. We often share our sadness, happiness, joy and sorrow with our friends. While some friends last a lifetime, some friendships last only a few years or days. We often blindly trust our friends, but some of them try to take advantage of our trust. It is very important to understand who are our true friends and who are our false friends. Here are seven signs to identify if your friend is your real or fake friend:
Judging: In friendship, people do not judge each other. They understand each other's circumstances and mindset while helping each other in life. If you have a friend who judges you often, it may not be a real friendship.
Not being happy about your success or achievement: True friends often celebrate each other's achievements and happiness. If your friend is jealous of your achievements and success, you may not be true friends.
Making fun of personal matters: Teasing is very common in a friendship. But if your friend makes fun of your affairs in front of him, then it is a red flag. You should always try to keep your distance from those friends.
Gossiping about your secrets: Trust is one of the most essential things in friendship. If a friend gossips and shares your secrets with others that you have told out of trust, then it is a red flag. It is better to stay away from such friends.
Not taking care of yourself: True friends always care about each other, even when they are far away. If you are in a friendship where the other person doesn't care about you or your feelings, then it is best to distance yourself from them.
Hide important information: Some people come to make friends just for their own sake. Some friends only take important information, such as job offers, and hide the rest of the information. Those people may not be your real friends.
Made up excuses: It is often said that a friend in need is a friend, but if your friends make excuses for you when you have a problem instead of helping you, then you must understand that it is not a true friendship.